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Merry Christmas

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Merry Christmas! May you experience the joy of the season through the eyes of a child!

Christmas Carols

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Who doesn’t love Christmas time and the music that goes with it?   How many times does a few bars from your favorite song transport you back to childhood memories of waiting for Christmas morning, and that perennial joy that warms the heart?   Christmas has to be my favorite time of the year when it comes to music.   But did you know some of the songs we sing were first sung in Europe thousands of years ago as pagan songs to celebrate the Winter Solstice?   The word carol means to dance or a song of praise and joy.    Some songs, had unusual beginnings such as I Saw Three Ships was written by wandering minstrels as they travelled through the English countryside and has several versions.   The three ships often referred to biblical characters, such as the three wise men, or Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus, but it changed constantly.   Good King Wenceslas was written in Victorian Britain by John Mason Neale to a traditional folk tune.   The story in the carol was about a

My favorite Christmas Movie

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As Christmas approaches, and if I'm humble enough to admit it, even in the middle of summer, enjoy plugging in my copy of White Christmas. Ever since I can remember it has been my number one movie for the holidays. I've watched it so many times, I can almost recite the lines by heart!  Can anyone say obsession?  And who, with just a few musical notes from the famous song by the same name sung by Bing Crosby, not be transported back to those days as a child when winter snow meant Christmas wasn't far off? Then the hopeless romantic I am, who doesn't want the knight sitting atop the white horse to win the heart of the woman he loves? Your turn:   What is your favorite Christmas movie and why?

Weird Christmas Traditions

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Christmas is for kids.   Right?   Well my biggest kid is my husband (shown here).   We started years ago a tradition years ago when the “real” kids were little that most people would think is absurd. After we have our traditional Christmas breakfast followed by opening of gifts everything is put aside and one more gift is set in front of everyone.   When I say go, everyone rips into their gift and the free-for-all begins. The tradition started with nerf guns and has progressed to marshmallows. Nothing is safe, but we all have so much fun.   Absurd?   I told you it was, but the kids have come to expect it and thoroughly enjoy it! Your turn:   What is your “weirdest” Christmas tradition?

Writing a Blog—When do you find the time?

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When I began blogging, I did one post and waited to just before the next one was due and did another.   At one point, something came up and the time I thought I’d spend writing disappeared.   Therefore, I’d been unable to post anything for a week.   I really believed there had to be a better way. So one day I sat down with my list of topics and started writing.   Within a few hours I had accumulated several weeks of posts.   Having them ready to go, I went ahead and scheduled all of them.   A couple of days later I did the same thing. Soon I had almost two months of posts accumulated and scheduled.   I’m finding it’s easier to schedule one day to work on posts.   Then I can schedule them and forget it. Your turn:   Do you have a blog?   How do you work in time to get them done?   Do you do them just before they’re due?   Or do you create several at a sitting?

Just for Laughs . . .

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Over Thanksgiving, my hubby and I went back to Ohio for a visit. My two-and-a-half-year-old granddaughter had us wrapped around her finger in a heartbeat. While there, my daughter-in-law had my granddaughter repeat her alphabet.   As a very proud grandmother, I listened to her as she echoed back her mother’s prompt.   A . . . a, B . . . b, C . . . c, and so on. The repetition of letters proceeded on queue through the alphabet:  R . . . r, S . . . s, T . . . t, U . . . My granddaughter threw up her hands like a football referee and yelled . . .  Me!

Snow in the Mountains

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Yesterday we had a winter storm blow in, dumping several inches of snow in the valley and upwards of a foot or more in the mountains. Winter snows in a high-plain desert region are looked on as a hope for the future.   A promise that water will fill the underground reservoirs for use next summer when the temperatures climb into the upper 90’s or higher. The impact of the melted snow reaches far away from the foothills of the Sierras onto the desert valleys and beyond. As my mind wandered it made me think of how we as writers impact people everywhere.   Our words have the ability to reach around the world with the invention of the internet.   One blog such as this can be seen in Korea, India, England, or our own back yard. A book can be a healing balm, its message touching someone’s hurting soul. It sobers me to think of the masses we can reach with a single word or sentence, for good and evil. I leave you with Ps 19:14, more as a reminder for myself than for you.   May the w

If you could go anywhere--Where would it be?

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I love to travel and see different places, meet people, and just experience things I'd never seen before.  Since I started writing I've been to more places.  When I go to a conference, I take a few extra days see the sights and just relax. I've been able to see Washington D.C., San Francisco, Florida, and Colorado to name a few.  I'd always wanted to go to Alaska and was recently able to cross that off my travel list.  (It helps having a son living up there.)    Mostly I've wanted to travel the United States because of the vast diversity we have here from the rain forests to the desert plains.  From the frigid north to the tropical south.  But if I could really say there was someplace I'd like to go, it would be to Tuscany.  I'd love to ride my bike under the Tuscan sun through the vineyards, past Tuscan Villas, and through a bit of history that dates back hundreds of years.    Your turn:   If you could go anywhere, where would it be?

For Jesse

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To Jesse, my son, who this Thanksgiving is serving his country in Afghanistan.  I dedicate this to you.  As a kid, and if he'd admit it even as an adult, Jess loved Snoopy.  Thank you my son for being so brave and so willing fight for your country, even if it means being apart from your family.  We love you! We miss you!  Please stay safe.

Out of the mouths of babes . . .

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I loved this.  The youngest one there understood the real meaning of Thanksgiving.

Give Thanks to the Lord

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Are you Happy or Thankful?

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What if???

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Giving Thanks

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Is Your Glass Empty or Full?

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      This speaks more to me than anything else.  I can easily succumb to grumbling and complaining when I should be thankful for my half-full glass.    

What I'm Thankful For

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As we enter this Thanksgiving season I am reminded of how much I have to be thankful for. **I am thankful for God who loves me in spite of myself. **I am thankful for my wonderful husband and best friend - you're the other half of me. **I am thankful for my children - I love you all, more than words can express. **My friends - each and every one that has walked beside me, taken me through good times and bad, and shared laughter and tears. **Our country - the land of the free. And for the soldiers that protect us. **For the policemen and firefighters who risk their lives daily. **For the dirty house, loads of laundry, and piles of dishes.  It all means I have a roof over my head, clothes on my back, and food to eat. The list is endless.  So everyday leading up to Thanksgiving, I will post a picture or a thought about being thankful.  In the meantime, I will be enjoying my time with my family and friends. God Bless you all. Your turn:  What are you thankf

What my Children will do differently - cameras

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My father's hobby was photography. He had Press Camera--the ones you only see in old movies--the big black box that weighed significantly more than the cameras of today.   The lens bellowed out and the flash was a separate attachment where the bulbs had to be screwed in before every picture.     He was always taking pictures of us, our family and neighbors.   To make a little extra money, he took wedding pictures.   As a young girl, I helped him in the "dark room", a root cellar in our home turned photo shop.    There he'd pull the paper from the film cartridge and develop the negatives, using a mixture of chemicals.  Then by shining light through the translucent plastic negative we'd create  prints.   The process was a long one, especially when comparing them to the point and shoot digital cameras of today.     Although I did enjoy the time I spent with my father making the proofs for his customers and later creating larger prints for the newlywe

I hate coffee

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Yes, I hate coffee--or maybe I should say I hate the smell of coffee.  I have probably just offended more than half of my readers by making that statement.  Sorry, but the smell of coffee turns my stomach.  The only time I remotely like the smell is when I first open the can and inhale the fresh coffee-bean scent.  But like I said, there are some of you who disagree.  Why is that?  It is because smells invoke memories (good and bad) more than any of our other senses.  Although coffee doesn't bring back bad memories, I do remember always having a pot on the stove, my parents drinking many cups of coffee, and the constant stench of it in my home growing up. The scents I love?  The smell of fresh cut grass.  For some, the connection is related to the pain of allergies.  I love the scent of fresh-baked bread and chicken noodle soup.  The smell of baby powder or the spicy smell of Monarda (Bee Balm) as I rake out my perennial beds in the spring. As a writer I need

Where did you Sleep Last Night?

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This is a picture of my son during his first tour of duty in Iraq using his backpack as a pillow and a slab of concrete as his mattress.  He is now on his fourth tour overseas.  I don't know about you, but I slept in a comfortable bed last night, with clean blankets pulled around me because of the veterans that have fought for our freedom. Although the words seem inadequate, I just want to say . . . thank you to all the men and women who have served our country and given so much of themselves for our freedom. Your turn:  List the first names of friends and family you know who have served overseas. 

Writing a Blog—Where Do you get your topics?

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When I first decided to start a blog, I struggled with what to write.   For the longest time, I had decided not to do one for that very reason.   But now as I am working to improve my social networking, I knew I needed to jump in and do it.   But I was still faced with the question of what to write.   So I went to the internet.   I did searches on “blog topics”.   I found more than enough blogs, articles, and marketing websites that listed possible topics. I copied each list into an excel worksheet.   Then I read it and marked the ones I could use repeatedly, highlighted topics I thought would be fun to write about, and made notes next to others that may be usable if tweaked slightly to resemble my interests. I keep the running list with me, along with a pad of paper on which I can make notes on when I think of something. I’ve found it’s easier to brainstorm related ideas by using the list as a jumping off point. Yes, there are always topics that will take precedence over the

If you could go anywhere--Where would it be?

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I love to travel and see different places, meet people, and just experience things I'd never seen before.  Since I started writing I've been to more places.  When I go to a conference, I take a few extra days see the sights and just relax. I've been able to see Washington D.C., San Francisco, Florida, and Colorado to name a few.  I'd always wanted to go to Alaska and was recently able to cross that off my travel list.  (It helps having a son living up there.)    Mostly I've wanted to travel the United States because of the vast diversity we have here from the rain forests to the desert plains.  From the frigid north to the tropical south.  But if I could really say there was someplace I'd like to go, it would be to Tuscany.  I'd love to ride my bike under the Tuscan sun through the vineyards, past Tuscan Villas, and through a bit of history that dates back hundreds of years.    Your turn:   If you could go anywhere, where would it be?

A Picture is Worth a Thousand Words

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I love this picture sent to me by my daughter in law.   The shoes you see belong to my son, daughter-in-law, and my granddaughter.   When I look at this picture I see several things.   1) A young family just starting out in life. 2) A pair of army boots belonging to a soldier who goes off to war to protect the ones he loves. 3) A small young life, just taking her first steps. 4) A mother and father who nestle their daughter between them.     As I start a story, hoping to make it unique, I bring to that fictional world all the things that have influenced my life, good and bad. That's what makes my story special and different from everyone else's.   Your turn:   From your view on life, w hat do you see when you look at this picture?

My First Rejection

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  Rejections.   Ugh!   No one likes them.   They are hard, they make you second guess your abilities, and they leave you with a question.   Do I quit or do I keep on going?   My first rejection came at a very bad time.   It couldn’t have been any worse if I had penned it into one of my novels. My mother had died the day before in a tragic car accident. I stood in my kitchen when my husband came in holding the day’s mail, which included the self-addressed envelope I recognized as the manuscript I’d sent to a publisher. I opened it and read the short letter telling me my manuscript was not what they were looking for. As I look back on that day, maybe it was perfect timing.   I set the rejection letter aside and didn’t go back to it until several days later.   By then the disappointment had rolled off my shoulders like water off a ducks back in comparison to losing my mother. When I finally returned my attention back to my manuscript, I had decided that I’ll keep on tryi

Gardening

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  As some of you may know I am an avid gardener.   When I lived in Ohio I had ten very large, very prolific, perennial beds, the biggest being over 700 square feet in size.   I grew Daisies, Black-eyed Susan, Lilies, Monarda, and much, much more. Yes, I lost plants, but for the most part, being blessed with my father’s green thumb, if I stuck it in the ground—it grew.  (Shown above.) Now that I live in Nevada, gardening has changed dramatically.     Along with the obvious—the lack of water, I now deal with creatures that eat my plants from the roots up!   I have pine trees that resemble trees from Christmases past. I put them in the ground and not even two weeks later they were void of their needles.   I have tried traps, repellents, and even throwing a few choice words at them.   But they keep coming back.   Voles and moles have gnawed the roots of my trees away, leaving them no roots from which to drink the water I give them. I have a feeling this will not be the

The Best Laid Plans

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  I work for a very large corporation which takes safety and training as seriously as they do their bottom line. Everyone receives yearly training on possible safety hazards, we have fire drills just like everyone else.   We even had a terrorist drill which included bringing in the swat team to search for wounded employees...and yes, we had volunteers that got to act out the part of the wounded or dead.   Just recently, because we are located in an earthquake-prone area, we had a drill scheduled for that too.   The safety team has been planning it for months.   They coordinated the drill with local officials on all levels. Fire trucks were lined up on the main road ready to come to our aide. The drill was scheduled for 9:00 a.m. Then suddenly ALL the lights went out.   Something made the power go out and the generators didn't kick in as they were supposed to.   Although, in case of an earthquake, it could occur, this was NOT part of the planned drill. It made me think of ho

The View from My Window - Lake Tahoe and Mark Twain

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The view from my office window is spectacular.  (No this is not it.) But, t o the west, beyond the hills in my small valley, I can see the Sierra Nevada mountain range. Just over their craggy peaks and out of my sight is Lake Tahoe (shown here).   It is a beautiful lake so blue and clear you can see over sixty feet into the water to the lake’s bottom.   Mountains surround the lake covered with a dense pine forest.   The view is absolutely breathtaking. Tahoe was originally named Lake Bigler after the third governor of California.   It is also one of the few inland lakes that can trigger Tsunami warnings during an earthquake.   It was also the location of the Ponderosa ranch used in the TV series Bonanza—now a private residence. But there is one little-known fact that I found amazing.   While reading Mark Twain’s adventure “Roughing It”, I learned that Mark Twain and his colleague decided to make the eleven mile hike from Carson City to Lake Bigler on foot.   Many hours later

Live Your Dreams

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The rest of the story—as promised.   At my first writer’s conference, my brain whirled at the enormity of writing community and the excitement that flowed between writers.   It was new and exhilarating and left me wanting to continue in my writing adventure.   But, was it for me?   Was it something I should pursue?   Those questions dogged my steps, leaving me unsure of myself.   In one of the many workshops, the instructor passed around a bag of Dove chocolates, you know the ones with the words of encouragement emblazoned inside the foil wrapper.   I’m not normally a chocolate eater, unless it’s coating nuts of any type, but I still shoved my hand into the bag and pulled out two pieces.   One I dropped into my purse and the other I unwrapped.   The inside of the wrapper read, “Live your dreams.”   Wow!   What great encouragement for someone who felt like a young bird, sitting atop a safe nesting place preparing to fly. Me.   I straightened out the foil wrapper and sl

A Little Bit of Encouragement

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     Here's a bit of encouragement for you, stay tuned to my next post for the story behind this promise message!        

Weird City Names - just for fun

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Have you ever wondered how cities were named?   I have and their reasons leave me scratching my head. Unalaska, Alaska – Apparently they didn’t want to be part of Alaska. Why, Arizona – Why not?   Oh, yeah.    That's in Mississippi. Turkey Scratch, Arkansas   - Happy turkeys? Zzyxz, California – They learned the alphabet backwards. Bonanza, Colorado – I thought the Ponderosa was in Nevada? Moosup, Connecticut – Is there a Moosdown? Hill and Dale, Florida – Apparently they couldn’t decide between one or the other name. Hopeulikit, Georgia – Hope you do. Zaza, Idaho -   Hmmmm? Normal, Illinois – Is anywhere normal? Crab Town, Iowa – When I think of crabs, I picture the ocean, not an inland state. Kickapoo, Kansas – Watch where you step. Spider, Kentucky – I won’t go there – I don’t like spiders. Frogmore, Louisiana – Is there a Frogless? Deadman’s Corner, Maine – Stay away from there, bodies are pilling up on the street corners. Unicorn, Maryland – I

When is Your Best Time To Write

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As with many writers trying to squeak in a little writing time along with the stress of their dreaded day job, family and other responsibilities, I figured the only way to make my writing time l-o-n-g-e-r was to figure out how to write faster.   I read a book called  2K to 10K: Writing Faster, Writing Better, and Write More of What You Love  by Rachel Aaron hoping for some golden nugget to improve my craft.   What I found was a confirmation of what I’d already started to figure out.  Along with a few other nuggets I'll share along the way in upcoming posts. Today, I am going to focus on when is the best time to write.   We each have our own personal “prime time”.   Some of us are morning people, who can write better when the day is fresh and so is the brain. Others are slow movers and need at least three cups of coffee before even chancing a glance at the computer.   Some are night owls able to plug away at the keyboard until those of us who are morning people (me) are

Pet Peeves and My Morning Commute

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  This morning on my way to work I was considering a possible subject for this upcoming blog.   My commute is an easy one where the last ten miles is a four lane highway with the speed limit of 65.   It can be a pleasant trip with views of the mountains on one side and cattle ranches on the other, their fields dotted with cows and horses. However, my usually peaceful drive was being hindered by someone in the passing lane matching the speed of the person in the right hand lane.   The two cars running along parallel with each other created a line of cars jockeying for position behind them.   The cars in back bunched closer, leaving no room for error by anyone. It made my morning commute resemble that of the Indy 500 race. The cars finally moved, but not without a few shouts their direction by others…including me, I’m ashamed to say. What is your pet peeve?

Pass the Word On

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IBM 407 Accounting Machine While in high school I met a young Christian man.   We were taking the same computer classes and ended up becoming very good friends. Some of the machines we worked on were almost ancient at that time, which would make them nearly prehistoric in comparison to the robust computers of today.  (See the picture above.) This young man would print out Bible verses using these machines and hand the papers out to everyone.   By today’s opinion of prayer in schools, this would have been frowned upon, but not then. Although we went our separate ways, I kept the papers for years.   I could probably dig into a few old boxes and not be surprised to find one of those scripture verses tucked into a book or between memorabilia from my younger days. Those tiny papers containing a huge message, changed my life forever.   Not long after we graduated high school, I met the God he served. I wish I could find him and thank him for those messages he’d given me.   Mess

Candy Dance Faire

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  All of us all have fairs and festivals that re-occur in our neighborhoods every year. Some having beginnings we’re never aware of. One near me in a small town located at the base of the Sierra Nevada mountain range called Genoa, NV, has a yearly festival called the Candy Dance Faire which runs the last weekend in September.  In the early 1900’s the Judge Daniel Webster Virgin’s daughter, wanting to illuminate the dark streets of town came up with the idea of raising money to purchase street lamps. The women banded together and made candy. Then every year, to encourage couples to pay for a dance ticket, the woman would serve their home-made candy free of charge. The dance still occurs over 100 years later, but now they also close the streets of town to motor vehicles and line them with arts and crafts vendors. These people sell everything from jewelry to metal design to hand-made quilts. And, oh yes, candy. Check it out here: http://www.genoanevada.org/candydancefaire.htm W

Autumn – My Favorite Season

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When moving across the country two years ago, I expected I would miss many things about Ohio and the location I had lived for more decades than I’m willing to admit.   The obvious were my family and friends.   Other things, like the familiarity of a life lived in one general area, I knew, would be a struggle. What I was sure I wouldn’t miss was the days of gray clouds and rain.   However, the dismal rain produced the one thing I find I miss the most. Trees.   I miss the vibrant green of the leaves in the spring time and they create as they are tossed by gentle summer breezes.   But most of all I miss them in autumn. Yesterday marked the start of autumn—my favorite time of year.   I love the musky scent of the season, the appearance of cornstalks and pumpkin decorations along with the feel of crisp cool air against my cheeks. But more than anything I miss the abundant color of the leaves in the Midwest, rich tones of red, yellow and rust and the crunch of their dried remains

My First Writer's Conference

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             My very first writer’s conference was the Romance Writers of America (RWA) conference in San Francisco.   I had written my first book and wanted the world to know about it. Being married with four children, I had never been on a vacation by myself, across the country, to a destination where I knew no one at all.   I guess you could say I was a little nervous.                First stop after check in into the hotel was the Faith, Hope and Love Chapter meeting.   There I met Debra Clopton, Linda Goodnight, and Janet Tronstad. In the short time between the meeting and the start of the RWA Conference, I had the opportunity to take a impromptu sightseeing tour of San Francisco with these wonderful women.   Through it, I also experience the open arms of the writing community.   And there in a conference surrounded by thousands of writers, I no longer felt alone.                I learned more than I ever thought possible. I met authors who up until then were just a name

A Diamond in the Rough

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On a recent trip to Alaska I wanted to see Mount Denali.  During our visit it rained daily, and the most I got to see was the bottom portion, as shown here.  It was the diamond in the rough, an image not quite visible to me until the clouds would part and show me the grandeur of the highest peak in North America.  Denali, also called the "high one", rises over 20,000 feet above sea level. I never did see it, but much like those clouds hid the beautiful mountain, so does our fear of achieving what God has intended for us. We let the clouds of doubt throw a blanket of indecision and procrastination onto what we can truly be until we let God, the creator of heaven and earth, chisel away the rough edges, create the light catching facets, and polish our gifts until they shine. The hardest part is taking the fist step, making an attempt at achieving something bigger than ourselves. Then, if you turn the wheel over to Him, the rest is a piece of cake!  Well, almost.  But tha

Weathering the Storm

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I posted this print on Facebook, but I couldn't resist placing it here as well.  I have so much empathy for that little bird, holding on with all he has while the cold rain pelts him in the head. We've all been there.  Felt our lives spinning out of control.  Holding on for dear life to something that resembles normal.  But only when we bow our head and say a prayer, can God work through our lives.

Labor Day

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For most of us Labor Day is the official last day of summer marked by a long weekend where most of us kickback and enjoy our final barbeque of the season.   But what is it really? Did you know that Labor Day was first celebrated in 1882 in New York City after labor leader Pete McGuire saw a similar festivity in Toronto for the celebration of Trade Union Act in Canada which began in 1872?   So yes, we copied off our northern neighbor. Were you aware that President Grover Cleveland proclaimed the day a national holiday in 1894 after several workers were killed in the Pullman Train strike by the U.S. Military.  It was supposed to be an appeasement to the workers after the violent act against railroad strikers. Did you know it was the first holiday to be celebrated with a parade? Did you realize President Cleveland decided to have Labor Day at the end of summer so as to not associate the holiday with May Day celebrations found around the globe?   May Day had been associat

What my Children will do Differently - phones

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For those of you who remember the picture above—raise your hands!   I know I’m dating myself with this next comment…Do you remember party lines?   You’d pick up the phone and the party that shared your phone line would be talking away totally oblivious to your need to make a phone call.   Plus, there were no secrets, because what you said was always heard by others!   Today our kids have digital phones, no longer connected to a physical wire, and no longer overheard by another party on the line!